Tips to Make Golf Enjoyable to All - Guide to Politeness on the Golf Course

Out on the course the other day, we were playing behind a really rude, lousily, foursome and it was truly awful. I am sure they knew better, but just did not care. That said, I thought I would quickly go through a few steps of golf etiquette and what you need to know in order to avoid being labeled as selfish out on the golf course.

Golf is a game of honor. It is easy to cheat at golf, so every player is on his honor. Those who don't play honorably are usually unpopular and will find it hard to get opponents as word soon gets round the club. Golf has its own code of etiquette that everyone should follow and obey. Here are just a few that I try to practice.

When it is your turn to play, be ready. When walking to your ball, make your decision about the club to use, whether you will hit straight or with draw or fade, the line you will take and so on. That way, when you arrive at the ball, you are ready to hit. You don't have to hurry, just be ready and make your play.

The norm is that first shot on any hole goes to the player with the lowest score on the previous hole. If that hole was tied, then the tee goes to the player with the lowest score on the previous hole. If everyone is clear about this, there will be no wasting time deciding who takes the next shot at the next tee. Play it different if you want. Just make sure everyone in your group knows and agrees.

Make sure those in front of you have cleared out of range before you hit. Make sure everyone in your foursome is behind you when you hit. Common courtesy as well as sensible health and safety.

Pay attention to the group behind you. If you are holding them up, let them play through. Some of us play faster than others. Groups that are unaware of others create annoyance and eventually anger at their selfishness.

Take care of the course. Repair your divots. Repair any ball marks. Replace any loose grass or turf in the center of the hole or anywhere there is loose grass. It is the responsibility of every golfer to look after the course.

Remember to rake the sand smooth after you have used the bunkers. Leaving them in a mess for the next group is bad form and selfish.

Park your cart away from the greens, tees, and bunkers. Park on the left side of the green, nearest the next tee.

One thing I see a lot is the people in front of me, are crowding around the hole filling in their score cards, after they have finished the hole. After you have finished a hole, move out the way to mark your score card. Mark your card on the way to the next tee. How hard is that?

These are a few things that will make the game better for all of us.

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Rationalizing Failure leads to Failure

A big obstacle to improvement in golf is the habit of rationalizing. When a person rationalizes, it means, to put it simply, that they place the blame for their defeats upon outside persons or circumstances. This protects their (possibly fragile) ego by taking the sting out of failure. It turns painful depression into less painful anger. It tears others down and, by tearing down of others, seems to raise them in importance, much like the last survivor of a battle royal who looks like a giant of the ring if everyone else is on the floor. It is bad psychology to rationalize.

First it is a most unpleasant personality trait. The least desirable companion on any golf course is the constant griper. It is a mark of selfishness to impose on others the necessity for listening to this bilge.

Second, the tendency to excuse one's game hinders remedial learning. No improvement is possible unless the individual takes full responsibility for all his golfing errors and proceeds to correct them. Analyze the reasons why the game went badly and work to eliminate them the next time you are out on the golf course. You might want to get this DVD to help you improve your golf grip, stance and swing.

Third, even if rationalization removes the sting from poor shots, it retards learning. Learning is faster if we attach a painful reaction to a poor shot. When you rationalize, it makes failure easier to take and thereby makes it harder to learn. Rationalizing or the making of excuses does not inspire remedial practice. You do not realize that remedial practice is necessary because you do not accept personal responsibility for the error.

Fourth, it is not wise to rationalize even when there is a good basis for it. If you do, it will intensify feelings of hopelessness, and prevent you from attaining a satisfactory level of performance. Your subconscious mind will resign itself to failure and that will become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Even gross physical handicaps should not be used as excuses. Many have made names for themselves under the greatest of physical handicaps such as the one-armed guy who hit two holes in one on the same round. Don't feel sorry for yourself, think positive.

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A Positive Mindset

Most golfers will admit that golf is 90% mental, yet most spend all their time and efforts on the mechanical aspect of the game. The golfing industry hasn't helped the trend by breaking down the golf swing and analyzing each of its components. The average handicap for club players is still the same as it was 20 years ago. Even with all the new technology in equipment and video analysis.

Everyone seems to be teaching or learning the perfect swing, but little do people realize that almost no one has a perfect swing, not even the pros. Each of us has a certain way of swinging the club, even if we are taught the correct way in the beginning. Negative feelings have a lot to do with our swing. If you have a good swing, and negative thoughts, you still will not play good golf.

Most players are distracted and not totally concentrating on their shot at one time or another. Each time this happens, you can lose a stroke or two. If this happens only 4-5 times a round, it could add a lot of strokes to your score.

The main principles behind good golf are simple. You must be able to focus on the task at hand and stay in the present, then pick a small target and empty all unwanted thoughts from your mind.

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Sink those putts ...

One of the worst things a golfer can do is think too much about putting. It’s better to take one quick look at the line from behind the ball and another from beyond the hole and then hit the putt based on your first conclusion.

Too many golfers examine putts from all directions, plumb-bob with their putters-that’s the strange exercise that involves dangling the club vertically in front of your face and closing one eye-when they know neither what they’re doing it. Then they stand over the putt, staring at the line until they start seeing all manner of bumps and swales and breaks, and before they know it they’re all but frozen stiff and incapable of putting a good roll on the ball.

Trust your instincts, instead-and the first impression usually is based on instinct. Addressing your ball and hitting it swiftly won’t necessarily make you hole more putts, but you’ll eliminate any opportunity for double to creep in and you’ll also get into a good rhythm.

When faced with an uphill putt, don’t be afraid to hit it more firmly than you might think necessary. For one thing, gravity is on your side. Another plus is that the far side of the hole is higher than the near side, so in effect the back of the hole becomes a backstop. Assuming you’ve chosen the correct line-uphill putts tend not to break much at all-you can then make a run at it safe in the knowledge that when your ball passes over the hole it will fall slightly and hit the “wall” behind the hole-the back of the cup.

So, relax before putting, let your golfing instinct guide the ball into the cup!

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Simple Steps that are Virtually Guaranteed to Improve Your Putting Skills

How can it be that on one day you putt beautifully, and the next you're all but helpless on the greens?

Putting in golf is one of the most inconsistent skills in all of sports. Good putters usually putt well, but even the smooth strokers go into short or prolonged slumps.

Pros are fairly equal from tee to green, with a few notable exceptions like Tiger. It's the guy or gal who putts well throughout a tournament that brings home the bacon.

Unlike the basics - golf set up, grip, and swing - putting is a world unto itself. There's no right way or wrong way; it's what works for you that counts.

Your putting grip is important, but what feels good and works for you might be a handicap for a fellow player. Check with some good putters and see how they place their hands on the club. It doesn't hurt to experiment with new methods occasionally. The putter - as a club - is vital to your success or lack thereof. And it doesn't have to cost $100; some of the prices for golf clubs have become ridiculous.

Foremost, you need a putter that looks good to you; that seems silly, but if you don't gain confidence from your putter's appearance, you won't putt well with it. Clubheads on putters come in so many diverse shapes and sizes that just selecting one that seems right for you can be a chore in itself.

The weight is important, but only insofar as it feels right to you; almost everyone has a different weight preference for their putter. Don't hesitate to buy an inexpensive or used putter if you find one you think might fit your style. If you like everything but the grip, you can get that changed in a golf shop. And it's not expensive.

If you have and old and trusted putter that has served you well and you're slumping, try placing a new and different-sized grip on it. All of these seemingly insignificant changes can give your confidence a needed boost.

Don't neglect your putting when you do your golf practice. But avoid becoming obsessive about it. If you practice putting over a long period of time, your back will begin to ache and your concentration will wander to greener pastures.

The majority of golfers ignore two important shots while practicing their putting: They don't work on putting from the fringe. And that's a shot that most golfers use frequently on the golf course.

Make sure you devote part of your putting practice to stroking approach putts from the fringe, both close to the actual putting surface and - depending on the texture of the fringe - as much as eight to ten feet off the green. A second troublesome putt that should be practiced from time to time is the dilemma that's presented when your ball comes to rest on the putting surface against the first cut of the fringe. That can be a daunting shot if you haven't practiced it. The key is hitting the top half of the ball while stroking the putter smoothly over the top of the fringe. If you try and chop down on this putt, it can have disastrous results. However, having said that, sometimes chopping down on the putt is the only way you can hit the shot if the fringe is fairly high. You have to experiment to find the method that works best for you.

Short and focused putting practice is better than long, tiring sessions that become boring. You can work on just about every type of putt in a 15-20 minute practice period.

Another key to good putting is to keep a journal of thoughts that work well for you when you're going well. And, conversely, record what is wrong when you're in a slump. It might be something that will recur - both good and bad - and if you have a journal to refer back to, you might head off potential problems at the pass.

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Golf Ball BS exposed - The Secrets That Manufacturers Don't Want You to Know

You have probably seen and heard advertisements from several different manufacturers claiming that their ball is the best. Hey, they can't all be the best...or can they? Since there are rules that limit a ball's initial velocity, it stands to reason that all the major golf ball makers are already pushing those limits. If they wanted to, they could probably make a ball that goes much further, but it would be illegal. Some pros are under contract to play the ball brand of their various sponsors, but they probably would do just as well playing a different brand, so it is not likely that these balls can be all that different.

That means if the average golfer wants more distance, any of the major brands will be OK. Some balls claim to have "high spin". Sounds cool, but if that is true, you can expect to increase your slice or hook, which negates the value of being able to stop the ball on the green more easily. Trying to spin the ball on "public" greens may be futile, because those greens are usually not as soft as the greens on plush private courses, so the extra spin might not be of any benefit to the average golfer anyway. If you really really like spin, use a ball with a cut or scrape on it (just kidding). If you like more distance, line up the seam of the ball vertically along the target line (not kidding, this supposedly also promotes a better roll for putting).

Some people claim they can feel a difference in the "softness" of the ball when they hit it. Don't be fooled by this. Any ball will feel softer if you hit it on the sweet spot of the club, and the same ball will feel hard if you fail to strike the ball on the sweet spot. Some people say they can tell by the sound; gimme a break, does it go "doink" or "squish"? If you think any of these balls are soft, allow me to bounce one of them off your head, and then you can tell me how soft it feels. They used to say hard swingers were supposed to use harder higher compression balls, yet the lower compression Lady Precept has changed this way of thinking, and now all the major brands are making balls with specs similar to the Lady Precept.

So the bottom line is this: Unless you are a low handicap golfer, it probably makes little difference which ball is better for you. The marketing hype is just playing on your mind. For the average golfer, brand guchi-fufu will probably get no better scores than Brand A or B or X. However, the mind is a very powerful thing, so if you feel more confident by playing an expensive ball, then go for it, a positive attitude will probably help you.

So without further ado, here is my "meticulous scientific" and most fiscally responsible method of choosing a golf ball. Use whatever the ball retriever can dredge up from the nearest ponds, and put the money saved to better use, like maybe for some extra beers at the 19th hole, or better yet, use it for some of the golf swing instruction DVDs mentioned in our web site!

Immediately Improve your Golf - Simple, Easy to Follow Ideas

All of us use hypnosis in our everyday lives all of the time. If you are overweight and overeat, you can become satisfied with smaller portions of food, If you smoke, you can
become an ex-smoker. If you’re phobic, your fears can disappear completely.

In an open state of mind, you can make strong, positive suggestions to change your life dramatically. Hypnosis can help you improve your golf game. It can help you lower your
score and feel proud of your accomplishment and your game.

Your inner mind is lazy: It needs repetition for change to occur. The more detailed your picture, the more accurate your outcome. If you expect a positive outcome, you will receive
it.

Once you create self-hypnosis on command and through suggestion, you need to product strong mental images of what you want to accomplish, you can lower your golf score.

You can achieve that score you always dream about. No more being embarrassed of your score in front of your friends.

And along those very lines, we have an article within this article, written by Jennifer Scott, author of Own The Zone. Jennifer is a Certified Hypnotherapist, and has helped many
golfers improve their score.

DON’T ‘BE THE BALL’ - BE THE TARGET By Jennifer Scott, Clinical Hypnotherapist

In the movie, ‘Caddyshack,’ before they swung, golfers repeated the mantra, ‘Be The Ball.’ This is OK for a funny movie or if you’re a beginning golfer who’s likely to miss the ball if
you don’t pay supreme attention to it. But for anyone else it’s ridiculous.

Because you’re better than that. You don’t want to just hit the ball. You want the ball to go someplace. Like...a Target. It would be much better for you to ‘Be The Target.’ To focus
intensely on the Target. To picture your ball going to it. To have it so burned into your mind that you can still see it in your mind’s eye when you’re addressing the ball. Watch the pre-shot routine of any good golf professional. What do you think they’re doing when they stand in back of the ball, in line with the target? They’re picturing the ball flying to the Target.

This is what my Golf Clients do through Self Hypnosis. They’re able to picture something happening and then let it happen. My Golf Clients ‘see’ the ball going to the Target while
they’re looking at the ball they’re about to hit. The connection with the Target is never lost. Want to improve your scoring?

Before every shot, make the Target your image.

Get the picture?

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Easy to Follow Golf Secrets to Improve Your Swing and Approach Game

I have been looking back through our Newsletter archive to find some really useful tips and advice to help you to improve your golf grip, stance and swing, that might be otherwise be missed by visitors to our site. I came across this, especially useful for new golfers to help to improve driver distance off the tee and also your putting.

Two questions from one of our golf newsletter subscribers … I have started golf at the age of 61 years. Seeing people hit the ball long distances, I have been trying get the same distance. I get a maximum of around 220 yards with driver. But that too not very consistently. After practicing for several months, I was told that it is because of my age that I don’t get the desired distance. Do you think this is true? and if not what should I do get a longer distance. Should I slowly increase the speed of the drive in its down swing (I have tried to bring the club down with a greater force. This way I lose control of the stroke and my whole game get badly affected. In fact changing into my normal swing become difficult then. I have therefore stopped trying to get long distances.) Do you have any suggestion?

My second question - I have been suffering for a long time in perfecting my putting. I have changed the way I putt several times. I discovered that I don’t get the direction nor the feel of the distance. This was even after reading quite a few books on putting. Now I seem to get a much better putt but I have not been able to perfect it. However, I still find it difficult to putt as close as 5 ft away.

This is how I putt. I take my direction from behind the ball. Take a stance. Move back so that my elbow rests on my stomach. By resting my elbow on my stomach I find that I have greater control on the putter, i.e. the putter moves in a straight line (Earlier when I was not resting my elbow on the stomach I used to find that the putter shakes while striking the ball. Thus making it difficult to keep the direction, and at the same time there was no feel of the direction) With the current technique, I have a better feel of the direction as well as distance. However, I still don’t feel confident about putts as short as 5 ft from the whole. Is there any way I can improve my putting.

Here is the reply from our resident pro, Joe DeLorenzo …

About your first question, a forceful swing has less of a chance to hit the ball on the “sweet spot” on your clubface. An easy swing that hits the sweet spot will send the ball farther than a hard swing that misses the sweet spot. A hard swing may cause improper weight shifting, which may reduce your clubhead speed. Proper weight shift from the top of the backswing starts going from the back foot to the front foot before the downswing begins, setting up the power of a whip without extra effort. Clubhead speed at impact is the sum of arm swing and wrist snap. A hard swing usually starts the wrist action too soon when the downswing begins, so there is no more acceleration added from the wrist by the time the clubhead gets to the ball, resulting an “all arms” swing and slower clubhead speed. For maximum distance, you must save the wrist action until just before impact. This is best demonstrated with a ping pong ball and paddle. How far can you hit the ping pong ball with an all-arms swing compared to using your wrist? Watch the slow motion replays of the pros on TV, and you will see the wrist snap is held back until the last possible instant. That is why most of the pros may look like they are swinging very easy, but they still generate a lot of clubhead speed with that last-second wrist snap, followed by a long high follow-thru.

About your second question, most people have a putting stroke that is not steady enough. To prove this, go to any square-tiled floor and see if you can keep your stroke steady along (or slightly inside) one of the lines in the floor. You will likely see the club jittering above and below the line during the stroke. Some people will spend a lot of money on a new putter, thinking that this might solve their problem, but before you waste your money, you must first do something about the steadiness of your stroke.

Here is how I found instant improvement. Recently I was in a Wal-Mart store which had square-tiled flooring, and while my wife was taking her time shopping, I went over to the golf aisle and tried various types of putters along the floor tile line, all of which showed a little jitter in my stroke. Then I noticed for the first time that there were some belly-putters on the rack. I never had tried these things because they were too expensive, but I put it to the tiled-floor test, and I noticed that by pressing the longer shaft against my belly, the stroke really did improve, very steady, no more jitters. It still seemed a bit expensive, so I made my own belly-putter by cutting a hole at the top of my putter’s grip and inserting a piece of broken shaft, making the overall length 43 inches. My next round showed immediate improvement in my putting, so I am sold on this belly-putter idea. I believe the shaft being pressed onto your belly will prevent and eliminate the unwanted wrist actions that make the stroke unsteady. You might want to try one yourself. You might also want to add the Thinkandreachpar.com golf training DVD to your list of golf gifts …

Good Golfing.

An Astonishing Golf Story and some easy to follow tips to Instantly Improve Your Swing

On Jan 28, 1995, a 70 year old golfer named Cy Young nailed two holes in one at the Lakeview Golf Course in Delray Beach, Florida. An extraordinary feat for anyone, of course, but especially amazing when you consider this fact:

Cy Young has only one arm. On the first hole of the course, he hit a 3 iron 96 yards and straight into the cup. He danced a little jig and continued playing the course.

On hole 13, he scored another ace, this time with a 3 wood that soared 107 yards. As Sir Walter Simpson wrote in The Art of Golf, There is no shape nor size of body, no awkwardness nor ungainliness, which puts good golf beyond reach. There are good golfers with spectacles, with one eye, with one leg, even with one arm. In golf, while there is life there is hope. Amen

The Laws of Low

Hitting a low shot is not just a matter of hooding the club face. Youll also want to play the ball back in your golf stance and choke down on the club. When you play the ball back in your stance, it is important to remember that you should not just move your feet to the left. This forces you to come into the ball at a much steeper angle and you could well hit the shot fat. Its better to take your normal stance and then widen it slightly by moving the left foot only to the left. You will want a slightly more descending blow; so when you move your left foot, also shift your weight to your left side and move your hands forward.

As for choking down on the grip, the idea is not necessarily to give you more control over the club. Gripping farther down the shaft effectively shortens the area in which the shaft can flex, so the shaft becomes a little stiffer. That will make your ball fly lower too.

But choking down will lose you some distance, so take one more club than you usually would for that distance.

Watch Your Heel

A good way to control the swing and to coil the body to store energy during the backswing is to keep the left heel anchored firmly to the ground during the entire golf swing. All too often golfers raise the left heel during the backswing and then emphatically bring it down to the ground during the downswing. Its a show of force with negative consequences: The body releases the power it has stored during the backswing and sways to the left or lunges during the downswing. Keep your left heel on the ground to provide a foundation for the firm left side that is fundamental to every solid golf swing.

The Toughest Shot in Golf

Ask any pro the toughest shot in golf and hell say the sixty-yard sand shot. Even the top players have trouble deciding whether this calls for an explosion shot or a normal wedge shot. Fortunately, we average players dont have to make that decision. The sixty yard explosion just isnt in our bags. So well make do with the normal wedge shot.

Stand squarely, with the ball in the idle of your stance. As with the long bunker shot, you should make contact with the ball first, so remain as steady as possible for as long as possible. As this requires you to swing with only your hands and arms, youll want to take a club or two more than usual (but bear in mind that playing the ball farther back than normal will deloft the club face slightly).

For anything up to seventy-five yards, the average player should use a pitching wedge hit with three-quarters swing.

Tips to Help you Improve Distance and Accuracy on the Golf Course

We all want to get more distance and accuracy off the tee and to be able to putt accurately and consistently, with this advice, I hope you will be able to do all of those things.

One of the most famous of all golf tips is supposedly from Sam Sneed. It says, hold your club as though it were a young bird. You don't want to hurt it, but you don't want it to get away either.
This best sums up the notion that very little grip pressure is to control the club. Another way of emphasizing this idea is found in a similar tip: Hold the club so that it is pointing straight up in the air. Lighten your grip until it reaches the point that the club starts to fall straight down through your hands then tighten up a slight

amount. You want only enough pressure to keep the club from slipping through. A tight grip will cause the muscles in your arms to tense up. This will reduce your clubhead feel and reduce your swing speed.

The only fingers that should feel any pressure against the grip itself for the right-handed player are the pinky, ring and middle fingers of the left hand and vice versa if you are a left handed golfer. They alone are capable of exerting enough force to control a club throughout the swing.
When asked how he got so much distances off the tee as a senior, Jay Sigel responded, "The way I grip the club so lightly is the main reason."

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It doesnt make any difference if you have an unorthodox grip or stance when you putt, but two things are vital: Your eye must be directly over the ball, and you must stroke the ball to make it rotate end-over-end.

You have undoubtedly noticed that manufacturers are now making putters more upright. This is to help the golfer keep his eye directly over the ball. Every great putter I have seen does this. In effect, their eyes act in the capacity of eyes for the ball. The ball can only see the line when your eyes are directly over it. If they are not, your eyes will see one line while the ball sees another, and I dont think I need to go into the results of that.

When your eyes are over the ball, you have a much better chance of stroking it accurately and imparting end-over-end rotation. End-over-end rotation means that the ball is contacted so squarely that it rolls over itself, on the same vertical axis, there being no side-spin as there inevitably will be when the ball is cut or pulled or mis-putted in some other manner. If a putt stroked with end-over-end rotation hits a corner of the cup, it will not spin off and will usually drop.

I hope you find this advice helpful and that it will improve your putting ability, accuracy and distance. My Golf training DVDs make great golf gifts.